"This necklace had almost bought my heart and mind now had one bead of crushed glass."An-Mei realized that she shouldn't be quick to give her heart away; she should know more about the person and take time for she pledges her heart's allegiance. An-Mei no longer thinks highly of Second Wife.
An-Mei's mother had no choice in making her life better, that is how China was. She could not change her life and improve her conditions. But now An-Mei lives in America and here she can change her life, so can her daughter. An-Mei wants her daughter to try and save her marriage, or try to make her life better. An-Mei believes that if she doesn't try now she will lose her life forever. In today's society we have the power to make a difference in our lives and in others. We should use every available opportunity to improve our lives and help others. This is what An-Mei wants her daughter to do.